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Our Happy New Year! – #Autism

Published January 9, 2013 by mandzmagee

Yup slightly late I know … I’ve been a busy bunny over the festive period however!!

The Christmas Holidays were certainly filled with surprises with our family!!  Theo especially, Christmas is normally something that goes completely over his head, he hates the mess of the decorations and just wants to clean them up … that obsession stayed … he still wants to “Tidy up”.  This Christmas however, he’s actually been quite excited about Santa coming!!  Don’t get me wrong, he is still terrified of the big cuddly jolly man, he did actually count down the days of Santa coming!!  As you can see in the following video …

Theo Counting Down Until Santa Was Coming! – Video

I genuinely can’t put into words how much it’s actually meant to all of the family how much his understanding of Christmas has meant to us, lets just say that over the moon doesn’t even cover it!!

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Theo In The Christmas Spirit

All three of the lads had a magical time on Christmas Day, Ali spent the day with us and Stu’s family then headed off up to Scotland early evening so that he could go and have another Christmas Day with his Dad’s side of the family (two Christmas dinners in two days the lucky lil thing!!).  Then Alex and Theo were engrossed in their new things, Theo hid himself away in his bedroom wanting to just obsessed over his new DVD player and new DVD’s.  Alex on the other hand had me reading all his new stories, playing with his new lego and other super hero toys.  Again to say he was happy is a massive understatement that cannot be put into words!!

Grandma Julie got Theo a Talking Tom cuddly cat, (you may have seen Talking Tom free applications on your smart phones … They’re fantastic for getting the kids to interact with!!  There’s a multitude of characters to choose from but if you look for Talking Tom you’ll be linked straight too them!!).  Theo has “Eeoo’s Om Caat” talking away to him constantly now and has started repeating more words and phrases finding it hilarious to have a talking cat.  He is now however getting rather frustrated that our cat wont talk back to him haha!!  Very cute too watch!!

Theo enjoying himself at his Grandparents on Christmas day!! – Video

I’ve had a couple of nights out with my inlaw family (an absolute luxury to me as I hardly ever go out at nights!), Christmas Eve (birthday celebration as my birthday is Christmas Day).  A meal for a cousin’s birthday which ended up in us staying out til the nightclub closed and then not leaving (Stu’s) Mam’s until silly o’clock in the morning!!  On New Years Day Mother-in-law and I went to our local for what was going to be a few drinks in the afternoon and well, we didn’t leave the local until closing time!!  It was an absolutely fantastic time because so many people I hadn’t seen since giving my job up at the bar were in and I got the chance to have a catch up with them.  (Thankfully I (think I) remember it all!!).

My Birthday Cake from Stu,

My Birthday Cake from Stu, and the boys!

Stu and I also had a chance to catch up with friends at home that we hadn’t seen or spent quality time with for such a long time.  It had been far too long and will definitely be remedied, we’re definitely not leaving it so long again!!

Yesterday Alisdair and Theo went back to school and I think it was a relief to both of them to be fair.  Deffo was Theo, he was such a happy little boy when he came in from his school Taxi.  I think it took a hell of a lot out of him though, by 6pm he took himself off to bed and we didn’t hear him for long!!  Thankfully over the holidays he found out what it was to stay in bed and just relax!!  So hopefully that’ll be him for at least another hour going by holiday routine, what’s the bet school puts him back into his previous routine lol.  So far so good however, it’s 6:15am and he’s still asleep, before the holidays it was a 4 – 5am rise!  *keeping my fingers and toes crossed that Stu and I can fall back into a routine where we’re not getting up at pre-Christmas times still for long if it does last!!*

The only thing that has let the beginning of the New Year down is the break down in the central heating and the boiler however it’s all good now so we’re back on the right tracks!!

Theo in his school play Sheppard's costume.  He certainly shined bright like a diamond on stage!

Theo in his school play Sheppard’s costume. He certainly shined bright like a diamond on stage!

I hope you’ve all had a magical Christmas, the most fabulous of New Years and I hope that 2013 brings you health, wealth and happiness!!

Thanks again for reading!!

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#MerryChristmas! – #Autism

Published December 13, 2012 by mandzmagee

Christmas and Autism means a whole mixed bag of emotions and feelings for our family that most others take for granted.

While most readers of this blog are busy spending December decorating their houses with beautiful decorations, we have to keep them minimal as this causes Theo to get anxious and highly strung. Where most people are taking their children to see Santa, we’re trying to teach Theo that this jolly happy person isn’t someone that is supposed to terrify him. While other people are taking their children to deliver presents and cards to friends and family we’re trying to get Theo to accept a change to his normal routine to be able to do this. While other people are taking their children to Christmas parties we’re trying to get him settled because he’s came into contact with too many people that have given him a sensory overload. While other people are putting Christmas presents below the tree and watching their children getting really excited to see them grow in piles and guessing what’s underneath the wrapping we’re locking the presents away because anything with wrapping paper around it makes Theo nervous because he doesn’t understand that it’s something that’s to be saved for a specific day and he can’t have it til then!

Theo absolutely loves Christmas Day however, Christmas day to us is like most other families, getting up at silly o’clock to see the kids opening their presents however that’s probably where the similarities end to most families,

Theo tears through his paper, carefully making sure that every scrap goes into the rubbish bag, neatly organising his new things into their specific piles, clothes in one pile, toys into a box, books in a colour specific order, money into the money jar and so on … If one of his brothers are making a mess he’ll stop opening his presents to make sure that their mess is tidied up then return to his when he’s satisfied.

At dinner time we’re at his Grandma Julies, with many other members of the family, which in hand makes him anxious and will melt down until he can start eating dinner, he’ll do things that he knows that he’s not allowed to do, keep pulling at either his Dad’s face or my face to get our attention focused onto him again. When dinner is served he’ll settle again and we’re sorted out, as long as there is nothing green on his plate! After dinner we’re back to the Mum and Dad attention seeking until the buffet is put out for when the rest of the family arrive. When he’s eating again he’s all happy, however Theo has no understanding of what feeling full or being hungry is, so he’d pretty much eat until he is sick.

When we return home he wants straight to bed, the day has been far too much for him and he just wants to be in a dark room with his familiar surroundings.

On Boxing Day he takes a bit more interest in his new things, he’ll take them into his room and self adapt to them being there, if there’s anything that he doesn’t like he will not accept it being in his room until he’s gotten used to the item. We spend the day encouraging him to interact with his new toys, sometimes he’ll cooperate! Mostly he wont however because they’re a change in his routine.

Autism makes our Christmas a very interesting time! I wouldn’t change it for the world tho!!

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